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My Parents ( My Dad ) literally destroyed my career.
I was very much interested in studying M.B.B.S and wanted to become a doctor. This was my life ambition as biology was my favorite subject .
After completing my 10th I was very much happy and wanted to join intermediate (Andhra Pradesh) in Bipc ( Biology , Physics And Chemistry ).
But After completing my 10th exams as I was told to join in some IIT coaching center not IIT Coaching but it was like entrance exam to a IIT Coaching Institute ( Ramaih IIT ).
I don’t know what it was.
I cried in front of them . They never listened to me. They did not know what I really wanted .
My dad’s colleague’s son is studying in IIT so I should do my engineering in IIT?
What the hell is this logic. I was forced to take Mpc ( Maths , Physics , Chemistry ). And I was joined in a rotten hell called as NARAYANA. They tortured me with the subjects I didn’t want to study.
I told to my parents they shifted me to AIEEE Narayana. I don’t know what was going on with my life. And atlast I completed my 10 +2 .
Now The Main Hurdle Entrance Examinations came.
My Dad made me write 10 entrance examinations. I wasn’t selected in any one of them. Atlast I got 43000 rank in EAMCET. And I asked my Dad To join me in Anna University College’s. He refused to pay the donation which was 10 lakhs even when he was earning 50k per month ( Central Government ).
Atlast I lost hopes on my Dad. His foolish decision’s destroyed my career.
I then joined in a college which is 60 km away from Hyderabad. It provided students with no minimum facilities. Now I am in my final year of my engineering. I see all my friends get placed in good MNC’s and All I was remained destroyed.
I don’t have any campus placements in my college . I am not loving the work I am doing. Only one thing that matters me before sleep why didn’t I dare to stand against my father.
I can get into any company with my skills I have learned. But I wont have job satisfaction or I wont live happily.
The reason I am posting this comment because every typical parent in India wants their kids to be engineers. They should talk with children and plan accordingly.
To all my friends and members of this blog.
Love what you do. Enjoy doing it. If you let your dreams compromise, then your story will be same as mine.
To the Admin I am posting this because I want all the members to know what happens if you let your dreams compromise. My story may change the attitude of parents. This is my story.
What do you think about this story?
What should he do?
This what what I would do – Question your thought process about your career